Gestational surrogacy offers high success rates, but there is no single percentage that applies to every journey. The likelihood of success depends on several factors, including the quality of the embryo, the age of the person who provided the egg, the health of the gestational carrier, and the experience of the fertility clinic.

Recent research has found that live birth rates following embryo transfer in gestational surrogacy are generally between 50% and 58% per embryo transfer when using modern IVF practices, with success largely influenced by embryo quality and donor age.

If the first embryo transfer is unsuccessful, many intended parents have additional embryos available and go on to achieve a successful pregnancy with a later transfer. Your fertility specialist can provide a more personalized estimate based on your embryo quality, age, and medical history.

While no fertility treatment can guarantee a pregnancy, working with an experienced fertility clinic, a thoroughly screened gestational carrier, and a reputable surrogacy agency helps maximize the likelihood of a healthy pregnancy and live birth.

For more information, read our guide, Understanding the Surrogacy Timeline: Why Patience Matters.

Choosing a surrogacy agency is one of the most important decisions you'll make during your family-building journey. An experienced agency provides guidance, coordinates every stage of the process, and serves as your primary source of support from matching through delivery.

When comparing agencies, consider factors such as:

• Experience and reputation.
• Surrogate screening standards.
• Communication and responsiveness.
• Transparency about fees and services.
• Matching philosophy and timelines.
• Ongoing support for intended parents and gestational carriers.
• Relationships with experienced fertility clinics and reproductive attorneys.

Don't hesitate to ask questions about the agency's process, success stories, support services, and what is included in their program fees. Choosing an agency that aligns with your goals and values can make a significant difference in your overall experience.

For more information, read our guides, Red Flags to Look For in a Surrogacy Agency, and Does Location Matter When Choosing a Surrogacy Agency?.

In many cases, yes. Most hospitals welcome intended parents to be present during labor and delivery whenever possible, although hospital policies, the gestational carrier's wishes, and medical circumstances are always taken into consideration.

Before delivery, everyone works together to create a birth plan outlining expectations for labor, delivery, skin-to-skin contact, time with the baby, visitors, and communication. Having these conversations well in advance helps ensure everyone feels prepared and respected.

The goal is to create a positive birth experience that supports both the gestational carrier and the intended parents while keeping the health and safety of the mother and baby the top priority.

Before and after the embryo transfer, gestational carriers take medications that prepare the uterus for pregnancy and help support early embryo implantation. These medications often include estrogen and progesterone, although the exact protocol varies based on the fertility clinic and the individual's medical history.

Some medications are taken by mouth, while others may be given through injections, patches, or vaginal suppositories. Most fertility medications are temporary and are gradually discontinued once the pregnancy reaches a stage where the placenta is producing the hormones needed to support the pregnancy.

Your fertility clinic will provide detailed instructions, monitor progress throughout the cycle, and adjust medications as needed.

For more information, read our guide, IVF Medications for Surrogates.

For gestational surrogacy, yes. IVF is required because the embryo must be created outside the body before it can be transferred to the gestational carrier's uterus.

The embryo may be created using the intended parents' eggs and sperm, donor eggs, donor sperm, or a combination of both. Once the embryo has developed, it is transferred to the gestational carrier through a medical procedure performed at a fertility clinic.

Traditional surrogacy, which is rarely practiced today, does not always require IVF because the surrogate's own egg is used. Shining Light Baby only works with gestational surrogacy.

For more information, read our guide, How Gestational Surrogacy Works.

A pre-birth order is a court order issued before a baby is born that legally recognizes the intended parent or parents as the child's legal parents. In states where pre-birth orders are available, this legal document helps ensure the intended parents can make medical decisions for their baby immediately after birth and that their names appear on the birth certificate when permitted by state law.

Not every state allows pre-birth orders, and the legal process varies depending on where the gestational carrier delivers. Your reproductive attorney will determine whether a pre-birth order is available and guide you through the necessary legal steps.

A pre-birth order is one of the many legal protections that helps make the transition to parenthood smoother for intended parents.

For more information, read our guide, What Is a Pre-Birth Order in Surrogacy? Do I Need One?.

The names that appear on the birth certificate depend on the laws of the state where the baby is born and the legal steps completed before or after delivery.

In many surrogacy-friendly states, the intended parents are listed directly on the original birth certificate through a pre-birth parentage order. In other states, additional legal steps may be required after the birth before the birth certificate is issued or updated.

Your reproductive attorney will guide you through the legal requirements and ensure the appropriate documents are completed so your parental rights are recognized.

For more information, read our guide, What Is a Pre-Birth Order in Surrogacy? Do I Need One?.

Surrogacy is a complex medical and legal process that involves many professionals working together over the course of a year or more. The total cost reflects the services, expertise, and protections needed to help ensure a safe and successful journey for everyone involved.

Surrogacy costs typically include agency coordination, gestational carrier compensation, fertility treatments, legal services, medical screening, psychological evaluations, independent escrow management, insurance, travel, and other pregnancy-related expenses.

While the investment is significant, each part of the process is designed to protect the intended parents, the gestational carrier, and the baby throughout the journey.

For more information, read our guide, The Role of a Surrogacy Agency and Why the Cost Is Worth It.

A miscarriage is one of the most difficult experiences that can occur during a surrogacy journey. While uncommon, it is a known risk with any pregnancy, including those achieved through IVF.

If a miscarriage occurs, the gestational carrier receives appropriate medical care while the fertility clinic evaluates the circumstances surrounding the loss. Once everyone has had time to heal physically and emotionally, the intended parents and their medical team discuss the next steps, which may include another embryo transfer if additional embryos are available.

Surrogacy agencies also provide emotional support and help maintain open communication between the intended parents and the gestational carrier during this challenging time. Although a miscarriage can delay the journey, many intended parents go on to achieve a successful pregnancy.

For more information, read our guide, Coping With Setbacks in Your Surrogacy Journey: A Guide for Intended Parents.

When carefully planned and medically supervised, surrogacy is considered a safe way to build a family. Gestational carriers undergo extensive medical, psychological, and background screenings before they are approved for a journey, and they receive ongoing prenatal care throughout the pregnancy.

Like any pregnancy, surrogacy carries some risks, including miscarriage, preeclampsia, gestational diabetes, preterm labor, and the possibility of a Cesarean delivery. However, fertility clinics carefully evaluate each gestational carrier's medical history to reduce these risks whenever possible.

Throughout the journey, the gestational carrier is supported by her obstetrician, fertility clinic, surrogacy agency, and other healthcare professionals who monitor both her health and the baby's development.

For more information, read our guide, How Gestaional Surrogacy Works.

Yes. Some gestational carriers choose to pump breast milk after delivery for the intended parents, while others do not. This is a personal decision that should be discussed during the matching process so everyone's expectations are clear before the journey begins.

In most surrogacy arrangements, the baby does not breastfeed directly from the gestational carrier. Instead, if she chooses to provide breast milk, she pumps and the milk is safely stored and transported to the intended parents.

Some gestational carriers provide breast milk for just a few days so the baby can receive colostrum, which is rich in antibodies and nutrients that support a newborn's immune system. Others may continue pumping for several weeks or even months after delivery. The length of time depends on the gestational carrier's comfort, recovery, and the agreement made with the intended parents.

Because pumping requires time, physical effort, and ongoing commitment after birth, it is important for intended parents and gestational carriers to discuss feeding plans well before delivery. A clear birth plan helps ensure the hospital staff understands everyone's wishes and that any breast milk or colostrum is handled according to the agreed-upon plan.

For more information, read our guide, Breast Milk Options in Surrogacy for Intended Parents and Gestational Carriers.

Compensation for gestational carriers varies based on several factors, including their experience, where they live, and the specific details of their surrogacy journey. First-time gestational carriers typically receive a base compensation package, while experienced gestational carriers may qualify for higher compensation.

In addition to base compensation, gestational carriers are typically reimbursed for approved pregnancy-related expenses and may receive additional payments for certain circumstances, such as invasive medical procedures, carrying multiples, lost wages, travel, maternity clothing, and other expenses outlined in their legal agreement.

Compensation is not intended to be a salary or a primary source of income. Instead, it recognizes the time, commitment, physical demands, and sacrifices involved in helping another family have a child. Reputable agencies also ensure that compensation is managed through an independent escrow account, providing transparency and financial protection for everyone involved.

Because every journey is unique, the total compensation package can vary significantly. Your agency can explain what is included and help you understand the benefits available based on your individual circumstances.

For more information, read our guide, What Every Surrogate Should Know About Surrogacy Compensation.

No. In a gestational surrogacy arrangement, the gestational carrier does not have parental rights to the baby she carries.

Before the medical process begins, the intended parents and gestational carrier sign comprehensive legal agreements that clearly define each person's rights, responsibilities, and expectations. In many states, additional legal steps, such as a pre-birth or post-birth parentage order, establish the intended parents as the child's legal parents.

It's also important to remember that in gestational surrogacy, the gestational carrier is not genetically related to the baby. She carries the pregnancy on behalf of the intended parents with the understanding that the child is theirs from the very beginning.

Reputable surrogacy agencies, fertility clinics, and reproductive attorneys follow established legal and ethical practices that help protect everyone involved and provide a clear path to parenthood.

For more information, read our guide, The Importance of a Strong Surrogacy Contract for Intended Parents and Gestational Carriers.

This is one of the most common questions people ask about surrogacy. While gestational carriers often develop a bond with the pregnancy, that bond is very different from feeling that the baby is their own.

From the beginning of the journey, gestational carriers understand they are carrying a baby for the intended parents. They do not view themselves as becoming the child's parent. Instead, many describe their role as helping another family achieve their dream of having a child.

Most gestational carriers say the most rewarding moment of the journey is watching the intended parents meet their baby for the first time. Seeing their excitement, joy, and relief reinforces the purpose of the journey and reminds them why they chose to become a gestational carrier.

Like any meaningful experience, surrogacy can bring a range of emotions after delivery. That is why emotional support, open communication, and postpartum care are important parts of every surrogacy journey. With the right support system in place, most gestational carriers feel a deep sense of fulfillment knowing they helped create a family.

For more information, read our guide, Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster of Surrogacy.

No. In gestational surrogacy, the gestational carrier is not genetically related to the baby she carries.

The pregnancy begins through IVF, where an embryo is created using the intended parents' egg and sperm or donor eggs and/or donor sperm. That embryo is then transferred to the gestational carrier's uterus. Because she does not provide the egg, she has no biological or genetic connection to the child.

This is one of the biggest differences between gestational surrogacy and traditional surrogacy. In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate uses her own egg and is therefore genetically related to the baby. Today, nearly all surrogacy journeys in the United States are gestational surrogacy because it provides clear medical, legal, and emotional distinctions between the gestational carrier and the intended parents.

Understanding this distinction helps address one of the most common misconceptions about surrogacy and gives intended parents confidence that their child is genetically related according to the embryos created through their fertility treatment.

For more information, read our guide, What Are the Different Types of Surrogacy?.

Before being approved for a surrogacy journey, every gestational carrier completes a comprehensive screening process designed to ensure she is physically, emotionally, and medically prepared for pregnancy. This thorough evaluation also gives intended parents confidence that their gestational carrier has been carefully vetted.

The screening process typically includes:

• A detailed review of medical and pregnancy history.
• Collection of medical records from previous pregnancies and deliveries.
• A psychological evaluation to assess emotional readiness.
• Criminal background checks for the gestational carrier and, when applicable, her spouse or partner.
• A home assessment and discussion of her support system.
• A comprehensive medical evaluation and laboratory testing at the intended parents' fertility clinic.
• Education about the surrogacy process, expectations, and potential risks.

Only applicants who successfully complete each stage of the screening process are approved to move forward with matching. Even after matching, the fertility clinic performs its own medical evaluation before an embryo transfer is scheduled.

This extensive screening process helps protect the health of the gestational carrier while giving intended parents the best possible opportunity for a safe and successful journey.

For more information, read our guides, Becoming a Gestational Carrier: The Surrogate Screening Process.

To help ensure a safe and healthy pregnancy, gestational carriers must meet specific medical, lifestyle, and personal qualifications. These requirements are established by fertility clinics and surrogacy agencies to protect both the gestational carrier and the intended parents.

Although qualifications can vary, most gestational carriers should:

• Have delivered at least one healthy, full-term pregnancy and be raising at least one child.
• Be in good physical and emotional health.
• Meet the fertility clinic's BMI guidelines.
• Be a non-smoker and free from illegal drug use.
• Have no significant pregnancy complications or medical conditions that would make pregnancy unsafe.
• Be financially stable and not relying on surrogacy compensation as a primary source of income.
• Have a reliable support system, including support from a spouse or partner if applicable.
• Be willing to complete medical, psychological, and background screenings.
• Be able to attend medical appointments and follow the treatment plan throughout the journey.

Meeting the basic qualifications is only the first step. Every applicant undergoes a thorough evaluation to determine whether surrogacy is a safe and appropriate choice based on her individual medical history and personal circumstances.

For more information, read our guide, 5 Things You Should Know Before Becoming a Surrogate, and What Could Disqualify Me From Being a Surrogate?.

Gestational carriers are healthy women who choose to help another person or couple build their family by carrying a pregnancy on their behalf. They are not genetically related to the baby they carry and have already experienced at least one healthy pregnancy of their own.

While qualifications vary slightly between agencies and fertility clinics, most gestational carriers must:

• Be between the required age range established by the agency and fertility clinic.
• Have had at least one healthy, full-term pregnancy without significant complications.
• Be raising at least one child.
• Be physically and emotionally healthy.
• Have a healthy body mass index (BMI) that meets medical guidelines.
• Be a non-smoker and free from illegal drug use.
• Pass comprehensive medical, psychological, and background screenings.

Choosing to become a gestational carrier is a significant commitment. It requires time, communication, and a genuine desire to help someone else become a parent. Throughout the journey, gestational carriers receive guidance and support from their agency, fertility clinic, legal team, and healthcare providers.

For more information, read our guide, Guide to the Surrogacy Application Process for First-Time Surrogates.

After the baby is born, the intended parents begin caring for their child while the gestational carrier starts her physical and emotional recovery. Although the pregnancy has ended, there are still a few important steps for everyone involved.

Depending on the state where the baby is born, legal documents such as a pre-birth or post-birth parentage order help establish the intended parents as the baby's legal parents. The hospital follows the birth plan created before delivery to ensure everyone understands their roles and expectations.

The gestational carrier receives postpartum medical care and attends follow-up appointments with her healthcare provider. Some gestational carriers choose to pump breast milk or provide colostrum for the baby if it was discussed and agreed upon in advance, while others do not. Every journey is different, and these decisions are made together before delivery.

The relationship between the intended parents and gestational carrier also varies. Some stay in close contact for years, while others exchange occasional updates or choose to remain connected through the agency. There is no right or wrong approach, as long as everyone's expectations are respected.

For many families, the birth marks the end of the surrogacy journey and the beginning of a lifelong chapter as parents.

While most surrogacy journeys are planned with the goal of a singleton pregnancy, twins can sometimes occur, even when a single embryo is transferred. In rare cases, an embryo may naturally split after transfer, resulting in identical twins. Twins may also occur if more than one embryo is transferred, although single embryo transfer is now the standard recommendation for most surrogacy journeys.

A twin pregnancy is considered higher risk than a singleton pregnancy and requires closer monitoring throughout the pregnancy. The gestational carrier may have more frequent prenatal appointments, additional ultrasounds, and a greater likelihood of activity restrictions, bed rest, or preterm delivery.

Before the embryo transfer, the intended parents and gestational carrier discuss their preferences regarding the number of embryos to transfer and review the potential risks associated with multiple pregnancies. These topics are also addressed in the legal agreement so everyone understands the plan before treatment begins.

Although carrying twins can present additional challenges, many twin surrogacy pregnancies result in the healthy delivery of two babies with the support of an experienced medical team.

For more information, read our guide, Do Surrogates Get Paid More for Twins?.

Before an embryo transfer can take place, every gestational carrier completes a comprehensive medical evaluation at the intended parents' fertility clinic. This screening helps determine whether she can safely carry a pregnancy and whether she meets the clinic's medical requirements.

Occasionally, a gestational carrier may not medically qualify or may decide not to move forward after additional evaluation. While this can be disappointing, it is an important safeguard that protects the health of the gestational carrier and helps give the intended parents the best possible chance of a successful pregnancy.

If this happens, your surrogacy agency will work with you to identify another qualified gestational carrier. At Shining Light Baby, if a matched gestational carrier does not receive medical clearance or withdraws before pregnancy, we will begin the rematch process without charging an additional agency fee.

Although a rematch may extend your timeline, careful medical screening is one of the most important steps in building a safe and successful surrogacy journey.

For more information, read our guide, Becoming a Gestational Carrier: The Surrogate Screening Process.

Not every embryo transfer results in a pregnancy, even when high-quality embryos are used. While this can be disappointing, it is a normal part of the IVF process and does not mean your surrogacy journey is over.

If a transfer is unsuccessful, your fertility doctor will review the cycle and determine the best next steps. Depending on your circumstances, this may include transferring another embryo, adjusting the treatment protocol, or recommending additional testing before trying again.

Throughout this process, your gestational carrier, fertility clinic, and surrogacy agency continue working together to support the journey. Open communication and careful planning help ensure everyone understands the next steps and feels prepared to move forward.

Many intended parents experience one or more setbacks before achieving a successful pregnancy. With patience, support, and an experienced team, many go on to welcome a healthy baby.

For more information, read our guide, Coping With Setbacks in Your Surrogacy Journey: A Guide for Intended Parents.

Matching a gestational carrier with intended parents is about much more than medical qualifications. A successful match is built on shared expectations, compatible communication styles, and a mutual understanding of the journey ahead.

Before a match is made, both the gestational carrier and the intended parents complete detailed profiles outlining their preferences, values, and goals. These may include topics such as communication during the pregnancy, travel expectations, views on selective reduction or termination, breastfeeding and pumping, involvement during medical appointments, and the level of contact they hope to have after the birth.

Once a potential match is identified, both parties have the opportunity to review each other's profiles. If there is mutual interest, they participate in a match meeting to get to know one another, ask questions, and determine whether they feel comfortable moving forward together.

There is no "perfect" match, but the goal is to find a partnership built on trust, respect, and open communication. Taking the time to make a thoughtful match often leads to a more positive experience for everyone involved.

For more information, read our guide, Understanding the Matching Process for Intended Parents.

The surrogacy process typically takes 12 to 24 months, although every journey is different. The timeline depends on several factors, including embryo availability, the time it takes to match with a gestational carrier, medical screening, legal contracts, and the success of the embryo transfer.

A typical timeline includes:

• Creating embryos, if needed.
• Matching with a gestational carrier.
• Medical and psychological screening.
• Legal contract completion.
• Embryo transfer.
• Pregnancy and delivery.

If the first embryo transfer is unsuccessful or unexpected medical or legal delays occur, the overall timeline may be longer. While these situations can be disappointing, they are a normal part of many surrogacy journeys and do not necessarily mean the journey will be unsuccessful.

Working with an experienced surrogacy agency can help minimize unnecessary delays by coordinating each step, keeping communication on track, and ensuring all required milestones are completed as efficiently as possible.

For more information, read our guide, Understanding the Surrogacy Timeline: Why Patience Matters.

Yes, surrogacy is legal in many parts of the United States, but the laws vary from state to state. Some states have comprehensive laws that support gestational surrogacy, while others have limited legislation or restrictions. A few states still prohibit or significantly restrict compensated surrogacy.

Because surrogacy laws differ, it's important to work with an experienced reproductive attorney who understands the laws in the state where your journey will take place. Legal professionals help prepare the necessary contracts, establish parental rights, and ensure the process complies with state requirements.

For intended parents, understanding the legal landscape is an important part of planning a successful surrogacy journey. The good news is that there are many surrogacy-friendly states with well-established legal processes that make family building through gestational surrogacy possible.

Even if you live in a state with restrictive laws, you may still be able to pursue surrogacy by working with a gestational carrier who resides and delivers in a surrogacy-friendly state. Your agency and legal team can help determine the best approach based on your individual circumstances.

For more information, read our guide, States Where Paid Surrogacy Is Still Illegal and Why.

Surrogacy is an option for many people who are unable to carry a pregnancy or who need the help of a gestational carrier to build their family.

Intended parents may include:

• Married or unmarried couples.
• Single individuals.
• LGBTQ+ individuals and couples.
• People experiencing infertility.
• Women with medical conditions that make pregnancy unsafe.
• Cancer survivors and others whose fertility has been affected by medical treatment.
• Individuals using donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryos.

There is no one-size-fits-all path to parenthood. Each surrogacy journey is unique, and the medical recommendations, legal requirements, and fertility treatments will vary based on your individual circumstances.

If you're considering surrogacy, speaking with an experienced agency early in the process can help you understand your options, timeline, and the steps involved, even if you haven't yet created embryos or selected a fertility clinic.

For more information, read our guide, How to Begin Your Surrogacy Journey as an Intended Parent.

People choose surrogacy for many different reasons, but they all share the same goal: building or growing their family when carrying a pregnancy is not possible or safe.

Surrogacy may be an option for:

• Individuals or couples experiencing infertility.
• Women with medical conditions that make pregnancy too risky.
• People who have had multiple pregnancy losses or unsuccessful IVF treatments.
• Cancer survivors and others whose medical treatments affected their fertility.
• Same-sex male couples who want to have a biological child.
• Single men and women who wish to become parents.
• Individuals born without a uterus or those who have had a hysterectomy.

Every family's story is different, and there is no single reason someone chooses surrogacy. For many intended parents, it offers the opportunity to have a biological child while remaining actively involved throughout the pregnancy and birth.

Regardless of their background, intended parents benefit from working with experienced professionals who can guide them through the medical, legal, financial, and emotional aspects of the surrogacy journey.

For more information, read our guide, How to Begin Your Surrogacy Journey as an Intended Parent.

Surrogacy is a carefully coordinated process that brings together intended parents, a gestational carrier, medical professionals, legal experts, and a surrogacy agency to help build a family.

While every journey is unique, the process generally follows these steps:

1. Choose a surrogacy agency to help coordinate the journey and provide guidance throughout the process.
2. Create embryos through IVF using the intended parents' or donors' eggs and sperm.
3. Match with a gestational carrier based on shared preferences, communication styles, and goals.
4. Complete medical and psychological screening to ensure everyone is prepared for the journey.
5. Finalize legal contracts outlining the rights, responsibilities, and expectations of all parties before any medical procedures begin.
6. Transfer an embryo to the gestational carrier through IVF.
7. Support the pregnancy with regular medical care, communication, and milestone updates.
8. Welcome the baby, with the intended parents assuming legal parentage according to the laws of the state where the birth takes place.

Although the process involves several important steps, an experienced surrogacy agency helps coordinate each phase, making the journey as organized and supportive as possible for everyone involved.

For more information, read our guide, Your Step-by-Step Guide to the Surrogacy Process.

The primary difference between gestational surrogacy and traditional surrogacy is whether the surrogate is genetically related to the baby.

In gestational surrogacy, the gestational carrier has no genetic connection to the child. An embryo created through IVF using the intended parents' or donors' egg and sperm is transferred to her uterus. This is the most common type of surrogacy in the United States and the only type facilitated by Shining Light Baby.

In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate uses her own egg, making her the baby's biological mother. Pregnancy is typically achieved through artificial insemination rather than IVF. Because the surrogate is genetically related to the child, traditional surrogacy involves additional legal, ethical, and emotional complexities and is rarely practiced today.

For these reasons, most fertility clinics, reproductive attorneys, and surrogacy agencies exclusively work with gestational surrogacy. This approach provides greater clarity for everyone involved and helps establish intended parentage through well-defined legal processes.

For more information, read our guide, Types of Surrogacy Explained.

Gestational surrogacy is a type of surrogacy in which a woman, known as a gestational carrier, carries and gives birth to a baby for the intended parent(s). The gestational carrier has no genetic relationship to the baby.

The pregnancy begins through in vitro fertilization (IVF). An embryo is created using the intended parents' egg and sperm or donor eggs and/or sperm. The embryo is then transferred to the gestational carrier's uterus, where she carries the pregnancy until delivery.

Because the gestational carrier is not genetically related to the baby, parentage is established through legal agreements and, when applicable, court orders that recognize the intended parent(s) as the child's legal parents.

Gestational surrogacy is the most common form of surrogacy practiced in the United States and is widely accepted by fertility clinics and reproductive attorneys because it provides clear medical, legal, and ethical distinctions between the gestational carrier and the intended parents.

For more information, read our guide, How Gestational Surrogacy Works from IVF to Birth.

Surrogacy is a family-building process in which a woman carries and gives birth to a baby for another individual or couple, known as the intended parent(s). After the baby is born, the intended parents become the child's legal parents in accordance with applicable laws and legal agreements.

Today, the vast majority of surrogacy arrangements in the United States are gestational surrogacy, where the gestational carrier has no genetic relationship to the baby. The embryo is created through in vitro fertilization (IVF) using the intended parents' or donors' egg and sperm before being transferred to the gestational carrier's uterus.

Surrogacy provides a path to parenthood for many people, including those experiencing infertility, women who cannot safely carry a pregnancy, same-sex male couples, single parents, cancer survivors, and others who need the help of a gestational carrier to build their family.

A successful surrogacy journey involves a team of experienced professionals, including a surrogacy agency, fertility specialists, reproductive attorneys, an independent escrow company, and the gestational carrier. Together, they help manage the medical, legal, financial, and emotional aspects of the journey while supporting everyone involved.

While every surrogacy journey is unique, they're all built on trust, communication, and a shared goal: helping intended parents welcome a healthy baby into the world.

For more information, read our guide, How Gestational Surrogacy Works from IVF to Birth.

Yes. If you already have a friend, family member, or someone else who has agreed to be your gestational carrier, Shining Light Baby can still provide the guidance, coordination, and support needed to help you navigate the surrogacy process.

Even when you have your own match, there are many important steps that must be completed before an embryo transfer can take place. We can help coordinate medical screening, legal agreements, escrow management, insurance review, travel arrangements, and ongoing case management while serving as a trusted resource for both you and your gestational carrier.

Working with an agency can also help reduce stress by providing an experienced team to coordinate communication, answer questions, and ensure important milestones aren't overlooked. Many intended parents find that having professional support allows them to focus on building their relationship with their gestational carrier rather than managing the many logistical details involved in a surrogacy journey.

If your chosen gestational carrier has not yet completed the required screening process, we'll guide her through the same comprehensive evaluations required of all surrogates in our program. This helps ensure everyone is prepared for a safe, successful, and well-supported journey.

Whether you need a complete surrogacy program or support with an independent match, our team is here to help you move forward with confidence.

Want to learn more? Visit our Independent Surrogacy Pros and Cons: What to Know Before You Decide guide to explore the benefits, challenges, and important considerations of pursuing an independent surrogacy journey with or without agency support.

Yes. Shining Light Baby proudly works with intended parents from around the world who wish to grow their families through gestational surrogacy in the United States.

We understand that pursuing surrogacy from another country can feel overwhelming. Our team is experienced in coordinating the many moving pieces involved, including communication, travel planning, medical appointments, legal coordination, and working with your fertility clinic. We'll guide you through each stage of the process and help ensure you understand what to expect before, during, and after your baby's birth.

International intended parents should be aware that surrogacy involves both U.S. laws and the laws of their home country. In addition to establishing legal parentage in the United States, you may also need to complete additional steps related to your child's citizenship, passport, or travel documents before returning home. We encourage all international intended parents to work with experienced reproductive attorneys and immigration professionals who can provide guidance specific to their situation.

Our goal is to make the process as smooth and organized as possible, no matter where you call home. From your initial consultation through delivery and beyond, we're here to answer your questions, coordinate your journey, and provide personalized support every step of the way.

Want to learn more? Visit our International Surrogacy Program page to learn more about the surrogacy process, travel considerations, and legal planning for families outside the United States.

No. Surrogacy laws vary significantly from state to state. Some states have well-established laws that clearly support gestational surrogacy, while others have limited legislation or different legal requirements for establishing parentage. Because of these differences, it's important to work with experienced reproductive attorneys who understand the laws that apply to your journey.

The laws that matter most are generally those of the state where your gestational carrier will deliver, not necessarily where you live. Depending on the state, your attorney may obtain a pre-birth parentage order before your baby is born or complete legal parentage after delivery. Your legal team will guide you through the appropriate process and ensure all requirements are met.

At Shining Light Baby, we work with experienced reproductive attorneys across the country who specialize in assisted reproductive law. We'll help connect you with the right legal professionals and coordinate the legal aspects of your journey so you can move forward with confidence.

If you're considering surrogacy, understanding the legal landscape is an important part of planning your journey. The good news is that with the right legal guidance and experienced professionals by your side, intended parents successfully build their families through surrogacy every day.

Want to learn more? Visit our Surrogacy Laws by State page to explore the legal landscape across the United States and learn how surrogacy laws may affect your journey.

Surrogacy involves important legal considerations, which is why every journey includes independent legal representation for both the intended parent(s) and the gestational carrier. These legal protections help ensure everyone's rights, responsibilities, and expectations are clearly defined before the pregnancy begins.

Before the embryo transfer takes place, a comprehensive legal agreement is drafted by an attorney experienced in assisted reproductive law. This agreement addresses topics such as parental rights, compensation, medical decision-making, insurance, confidentiality, communication, and other important aspects of the journey. Both the intended parents and the gestational carrier are represented by separate attorneys to ensure everyone receives independent legal advice.

Depending on where the gestational carrier delivers, additional legal steps may be required to establish the intended parents' legal parentage before or after birth. An experienced reproductive attorney will guide you through the requirements in the applicable state and help ensure all necessary legal documents are completed.

At Shining Light Baby, we work closely with trusted reproductive attorneys who specialize in surrogacy law. We'll help coordinate the legal process and connect you with experienced professionals who will protect your interests throughout your journey.

While surrogacy laws vary by state, having knowledgeable legal representation from the very beginning helps provide confidence, clarity, and peace of mind as you prepare to welcome your child.

Want to learn more? Visit our Surrogacy Laws by State guide to understand how laws differ across the United States and why experienced legal guidance is essential during the surrogacy process.

Yes. An escrow account is an essential part of the surrogacy process and helps protect both intended parents and gestational carriers by ensuring that all financial transactions are handled securely, transparently, and according to the legal agreement.

An independent escrow company manages the funds that will be used throughout the journey, including gestational carrier compensation, reimbursements, medical expenses, insurance premiums, and other approved costs. Instead of exchanging payments directly, funds are deposited into the escrow account and distributed as milestones are reached or eligible expenses are submitted.

Using an independent escrow provider gives everyone peace of mind. Intended parents know their funds are managed responsibly, while gestational carriers can feel confident they'll receive payments accurately and on time. It also creates a clear financial record throughout the journey.

At Shining Light Baby, we work with trusted, independent escrow professionals who specialize in third-party reproduction. We'll guide you through the process of opening and funding your escrow account and coordinate with your escrow manager throughout your journey.

An escrow account is more than a financial tool. It's an important safeguard that promotes trust, transparency, and accountability for everyone involved in the surrogacy process.

Want to learn more? Visit our Understanding Escrow in Surrogacy guide to learn how escrow works, why it's important, and how it helps protect intended parents and gestational carriers throughout the journey.

Yes. Many intended parents use a combination of savings, financing, grants, employer fertility benefits, and other financial resources to help make surrogacy possible. Because surrogacy costs are spread throughout the journey rather than paid all at once, many families create a financial plan before getting started.

Depending on your circumstances, you may qualify for fertility grants, financing programs, or employer-sponsored fertility benefits that can help offset some of the costs associated with IVF or surrogacy. Some intended parents also use home equity loans, personal loans, or other financing options to help manage expenses over time.

While Shining Light Baby does not provide financing directly, we're happy to connect you with trusted resources that may help make your family-building journey more affordable. Our team believes financial planning is an important part of preparing for surrogacy, and we're here to help you understand your options.

Every family's financial situation is different, and there is no single solution that works for everyone. Exploring your options early in the process can help you move forward with greater confidence and peace of mind.

Want to learn more? Visit our How to Budget and Plan Financially for Surrogacy guide for practical tips on creating a surrogacy budget, exploring financing options, and preparing for the financial aspects of your family-building journey.

Insurance coverage for surrogacy varies depending on the gestational carrier's health insurance plan, your insurance coverage, and the specific medical services involved. Because every policy is different, there is no single answer that applies to every surrogacy journey.

Some gestational carriers have health insurance plans that cover a surrogate pregnancy, while others may require a surrogacy-friendly maternity policy. Before moving forward, insurance professionals carefully review the gestational carrier's existing coverage to determine whether additional insurance is needed. This helps identify potential exclusions and avoid unexpected expenses later in the pregnancy.

In addition to maternity coverage for the gestational carrier, intended parents are also responsible for ensuring their newborn has health insurance in place after birth. Planning ahead helps make the transition as smooth as possible once your baby arrives.

At Shining Light Baby, we work with experienced insurance professionals who specialize in third-party reproduction. They help review policies, explain your options, and ensure the appropriate coverage is in place before the embryo transfer whenever possible.

Because insurance is just one piece of the overall financial picture, we'll help you understand how it fits into your surrogacy budget and what to expect throughout the process.

Want to learn more? Visit our How to Budget and Plan Financially for Surrogacy page to learn more about insurance, medical expenses, and planning for the financial aspects of your surrogacy journey.

The cost of gestational surrogacy varies depending on your unique journey, but most intended parents should expect to invest between $150,000 and $250,000 or more. The total cost depends on several factors, including your fertility clinic, legal and medical expenses, your gestational carrier's compensation and benefits, insurance coverage, travel, and whether additional embryo transfers are needed.

Surrogacy is more than a single service. It's a coordinated process involving experienced professionals who work together to help you safely grow your family. In addition to agency services, your investment may include:

• Agency fees
• Gestational carrier compensation and benefits
• IVF and fertility clinic expenses
• Medical screening and embryo transfer
• Legal services for both parties
• Escrow management
• Insurance and maternity-related expenses
• Psychological evaluations
• Travel and miscellaneous costs

Because every family's circumstances are different, there is no one-size-fits-all price. Some intended parents already have embryos created, while others need to complete IVF before beginning the surrogacy process. Others may require donor eggs, donor sperm, or multiple embryo transfers, which can affect the overall investment.

At Shining Light Baby, we believe in transparency. We'll help you understand the expected costs before your journey begins so you can plan with confidence. Our team is also happy to discuss resources that may help make surrogacy more financially accessible, including financing options and fertility grants.

While surrogacy is a significant financial commitment, many intended parents view it as an investment in building the family they've always dreamed of. Our goal is to help you navigate the process with clear expectations, experienced guidance, and compassionate support from beginning to baby.

Want to learn more? Visit our Surrogacy Costs page for a detailed breakdown of the expenses involved and what you can expect throughout your journey.

In most cases, yes. Intended parents are typically encouraged to be present for the birth of their baby, and it's often one of the most meaningful moments of the entire surrogacy journey. As the pregnancy progresses, everyone will work together to create a birth plan that outlines expectations for labor, delivery, and the baby's arrival.

The specific arrangements may vary depending on your gestational carrier's wishes, your travel plans, the hospital's policies, and any medical circumstances surrounding the delivery. Whenever possible, we encourage intended parents to plan to arrive several days before the estimated due date, as babies don't always arrive on schedule.

Our team will help coordinate communication with your gestational carrier and ensure you're prepared for delivery day. We'll also work closely with your legal team and hospital staff so everyone understands the birth plan and your role as the intended parent(s).

While every birth is different, our goal is to help create a smooth, joyful experience that allows you to focus on what matters most: welcoming your baby into the world.

The amount of contact you have with your gestational carrier is entirely unique to your match. Some intended parents and surrogates communicate almost daily through text messages, phone calls, or video chats, while others prefer weekly updates or communication around important milestones. There is no right or wrong approach. The goal is to find a level of communication that feels comfortable for everyone involved.

Before you're matched, we'll discuss your communication preferences and what you're hoping your relationship will look like throughout the journey. During the match meeting, you and your potential gestational carrier will have the opportunity to talk about expectations, including communication, prenatal appointments, delivery plans, and contact after birth. These conversations help ensure you're well matched from the beginning.

Many intended parents choose to attend important appointments, such as the embryo transfer, heartbeat ultrasound, anatomy scan, or delivery, when possible. If travel isn't practical, many clinics also offer virtual participation so you can still be part of these special moments.

At Shining Light Baby, we encourage open, respectful communication while recognizing that every relationship develops differently. Our team remains involved throughout the journey and is always available to help facilitate communication, answer questions, or provide support whenever needed.

Every surrogacy relationship is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. Some intended parents and gestational carriers communicate frequently throughout the pregnancy, while others prefer more occasional updates. The most important thing is that everyone feels comfortable and that expectations are discussed openly from the beginning.

At Shining Light Baby, we carefully consider communication styles, personalities, and expectations when making a match. During the matching process, you'll have the opportunity to discuss topics such as the level of contact you'd like during the pregnancy, attendance at appointments, delivery plans, and your hopes for communication after birth. Establishing these expectations early helps build trust and creates a positive experience for everyone involved.

Many intended parents develop meaningful, lifelong friendships with their gestational carrier, while others maintain a warm relationship centered around occasional updates and milestones. Neither approach is right or wrong. Our goal is to help create a relationship that feels natural and comfortable for both parties.

Throughout the journey, our team remains available to provide guidance, facilitate communication when needed, and help address any questions or concerns that may arise. We're committed to helping both intended parents and gestational carriers enjoy a respectful, supportive, and rewarding experience together.

While everyone hopes for a successful first embryo transfer, it's important to remember that IVF is not an exact science. Even with healthy embryos and an experienced fertility team, a successful pregnancy cannot be guaranteed with any single transfer.

If an embryo transfer is unsuccessful, your fertility clinic will review the cycle and determine the best next steps. Depending on your individual circumstances, they may recommend another embryo transfer, adjustments to the medication protocol, additional testing, or further evaluation before moving forward.

This can be an emotional setback for both intended parents and the gestational carrier. Our team is here to provide guidance, answer questions, and offer support as you navigate the next phase of your journey. We'll continue coordinating with your fertility clinic and gestational carrier to help ensure everyone is prepared for the next steps.

Many successful surrogacy journeys require more than one embryo transfer. While an unsuccessful transfer may extend your timeline, it does not mean your dream of becoming a parent is over. Patience, perseverance, and a strong support team are all important parts of the process.

Throughout your journey, we'll be by your side to help coordinate care, keep communication open, and support both you and your gestational carrier as you work toward a successful pregnancy.

Want to learn more? Visit our Coping With Setbacks in Your Surrogacy Journey: A Guide for Intended Parents understand why unsuccessful embryo transfers can happen and what comes next.

Although it's uncommon, there are times when a gestational carrier may not receive medical clearance from your fertility clinic. This can happen for a variety of reasons, including findings during her medical evaluation, changes in her health, or recommendations made by the reproductive endocrinologist. The medical screening process is designed to protect the health and safety of the gestational carrier, the baby, and the intended parents.

If your matched surrogate is not medically cleared, our team will walk you through the next steps. We'll explain the situation, answer your questions, and begin the process of finding another qualified gestational carrier. While we know this can be disappointing, it's important to remember that medical screening is a critical safeguard and helps ensure the best possible chance for a healthy pregnancy.

In the rare event that your matched gestational carrier does not receive medical clearance or decides not to continue before achieving pregnancy, Shining Light Baby will begin the rematching process and work to find another qualified gestational carrier for your journey. There is no additional agency fee for this rematch, allowing you to move forward with confidence should an unexpected situation arise.

Our matching process is designed with these possibilities in mind, and we'll continue working closely with you until you're matched with a surrogate who is medically approved to move forward. Throughout the process, we'll keep you informed and provide support every step of the way.

Although an unexpected delay can be frustrating, taking the time to ensure your gestational carrier is fully medically cleared helps build the strongest possible foundation for a successful surrogacy journey.

Want to learn more? Visit our Surrogate Screening Process page to learn how medical evaluations help protect everyone involved in the surrogacy journey.

Every gestational carrier is unique, but the women who become surrogates through Shining Light Baby share many of the same qualities. They are compassionate, responsible, and genuinely want to help someone else experience the joy of becoming a parent.

Most of our gestational carriers are women who have already completed their own families and have experienced healthy pregnancies and uncomplicated deliveries. They understand the commitment involved in pregnancy and choose surrogacy because they want to make a meaningful difference in another family's life.

In addition to meeting medical guidelines, our surrogates typically:

• Are between the ages of 21 and 40
• Have had at least one healthy, full-term pregnancy
• Are currently raising at least one child
• Maintain a healthy lifestyle
• Have a strong support system
• Are financially stable
• Pass comprehensive medical, psychological, and background screenings

Beyond these qualifications, we look for women who communicate openly, follow medical recommendations, and are committed to building a positive relationship with their intended parents. Every surrogate is carefully screened to ensure she is emotionally, physically, and mentally prepared for the journey ahead.

No two gestational carriers are exactly alike, and there is no "perfect" surrogate. That's why we take the time to understand both our intended parents and our surrogates before making a match. Our goal is to create partnerships built on trust, compatibility, and shared expectations.

Want to learn more? Visit our Surrogate Qualifications and Surrogate Screening Process pages to learn more about the qualifications and evaluation process for becoming a gestational carrier.

At Shining Light Baby, every gestational carrier completes a comprehensive screening process before being accepted into our program. Our goal is to ensure that each surrogate is physically, emotionally, and mentally prepared for the journey while helping create the safest possible experience for everyone involved.

Our screening process begins with a detailed application and includes a review of pregnancy and delivery history, medical records, lifestyle, and overall health. We also conduct criminal background checks on both the gestational carrier and her partner, if applicable, as well as a review of financial and personal readiness.

Once matched, your gestational carrier will complete a medical evaluation with your fertility clinic. This typically includes physical examinations, laboratory testing, and additional screenings to confirm she is medically qualified for an embryo transfer. She will also complete a psychological evaluation to ensure she fully understands the emotional aspects of surrogacy and is prepared for the journey ahead.

We believe screening is about more than meeting medical requirements. We also take the time to get to know each gestational carrier, understand her motivations, and ensure she shares our commitment to open communication, compassion, and creating a positive experience for the intended parents she hopes to help.

While no screening process can eliminate every uncertainty, our thorough evaluation helps provide intended parents with confidence as they begin one of the most important relationships of their surrogacy journey.

Want to learn more? Visit our Surrogate Screening Process page for a detailed look at the qualifications, evaluations, and requirements every gestational carrier completes before being matched.

The time it takes to match with a gestational carrier varies based on several factors, including your preferences, embryo readiness, and the availability of qualified surrogates. While every journey is different, most intended parents are matched within a few months after joining our program.

At Shining Light Baby, we believe a successful match is about much more than availability. We take the time to understand your personality, communication style, expectations, and goals, then thoughtfully match you with a gestational carrier whose values and preferences align with yours. This personalized approach helps build a strong foundation for a positive journey and lasting relationship.

Several factors can influence your matching timeline, including:

• Whether your embryos are already created
• Your preferences for your gestational carrier
• The availability of qualified surrogate candidates
• Medical and legal readiness

While we know you're eager to move forward, we never rush the matching process. Finding the right gestational carrier is one of the most important parts of your journey, and we believe it's worth taking the time to make the best possible match.

Once a potential match is identified, we'll share the gestational carrier's profile with you. If both parties would like to move forward, we'll arrange a match meeting so you can get to know one another before making a final decision.

Want to learn more? Visit our Understanding the Matching Process for Intended Parents page to learn more about our personalized matching process and what makes a successful match.

Every surrogacy journey is unique, but most intended parents can expect the process to take 12 to 24 months from the time they begin working with an agency until they welcome their baby home. The exact timeline depends on several factors, including embryo availability, the time it takes to match with a gestational carrier, medical screening, legal requirements, and the success of the embryo transfer.

The journey begins with your consultation, onboarding, and creating your intended parent profile. If you do not already have embryos, you'll work with your fertility clinic to complete the IVF process while we begin preparing for your surrogate match.

Once you're matched with a gestational carrier, the process moves into medical screening, legal contracts, escrow funding, insurance review, and the embryo transfer. If the transfer is successful, the pregnancy typically lasts about nine months, just like any other pregnancy.

While every family hopes for a successful first embryo transfer, it's important to understand that IVF does not guarantee pregnancy. Some journeys require more than one transfer, which can affect the overall timeline. Our team will keep you informed throughout the process and help coordinate each step so you always know what comes next.

Although surrogacy requires patience, many intended parents find that having an experienced agency managing the details helps the process feel much more organized and less overwhelming.

Want a detailed breakdown? Visit our Surrogacy Timeline page to see what happens during each stage of the journey and what you can expect along the way.

Yes. If you haven't already selected a fertility clinic, Shining Light Baby can connect you with experienced reproductive endocrinologists and IVF centers that have extensive experience working with gestational surrogacy cases.

Choosing the right fertility clinic is an important part of your journey. Your clinic will be responsible for creating and storing your embryos, coordinating your gestational carrier's medical screening, managing the medication protocol, performing the embryo transfer, and monitoring the early stages of pregnancy. Working with a clinic that regularly handles third-party reproduction can help ensure the process is as smooth as possible.

If you've already established care with a fertility clinic, we're happy to work alongside your existing medical team. If you're still exploring your options, we'll help you find a clinic that best fits your medical needs, location, and family-building goals.

Our role is not to tell you which clinic to choose, but to help you make an informed decision and coordinate communication between your fertility team, legal professionals, and gestational carrier throughout the journey.

No. While embryos are required before an embryo transfer can take place, you do not need to have embryos created before contacting Shining Light Baby or beginning the surrogacy process.

Many intended parents choose to start planning their surrogacy journey while they are still working with a fertility clinic to create embryos. Others may already have frozen embryos from previous IVF cycles. If you have not yet selected a fertility clinic or begun fertility treatment, we can connect you with experienced reproductive endocrinologists who can help you determine the best path forward.

Starting the process early can actually save time. While your fertility clinic is creating embryos, we can begin preparing for other important milestones, such as your agency onboarding, profile creation, and planning for your future surrogate match. By working on these steps simultaneously, many intended parents are ready to move forward as soon as their embryos are available.

If you are using donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryos, your fertility specialist will guide you through those decisions and help create a treatment plan that aligns with your family-building goals.

Whether you're just beginning IVF or already have embryos waiting, our team is here to help coordinate the next steps and ensure your surrogacy journey moves forward as smoothly as possible.

Every surrogacy journey is unique, but the overall process follows a series of carefully planned steps. Our experienced team will guide you through each stage, coordinate with your medical and legal professionals, and provide support from your first consultation until you welcome your baby home.

1. Initial Consultation

Your journey begins with a complimentary consultation where we'll answer your questions, discuss your family-building goals, and explain the surrogacy process in detail. This is also an opportunity to learn about Shining Light Baby and determine whether we're the right agency for you.

2. Join Our Program

Once you're ready to move forward, you'll complete our intended parent agreement, onboarding paperwork, and intended parent profile. If you haven't selected a fertility clinic, we're happy to recommend experienced reproductive specialists who align with your needs.

3. Match with a Gestational Carrier

We carefully match intended parents and gestational carriers based on much more than a checklist. We consider personalities, communication styles, expectations, and shared goals to create a strong foundation for a successful journey. Once both parties feel comfortable moving forward, we'll arrange a match meeting so you can get to know one another.

4. Medical and Legal Preparation

Your gestational carrier will complete medical screening with your fertility clinic to ensure she's ready for the embryo transfer. At the same time, both parties will work with independent reproductive attorneys to finalize the legal agreement. We'll also help coordinate your escrow account and review any insurance requirements before treatment begins.

5. Embryo Transfer

After all medical, legal, and financial requirements have been completed, your fertility clinic will begin the medication protocol and schedule the embryo transfer. Many intended parents choose to attend the transfer in person, while others participate virtually if travel isn't possible.

6. Pregnancy and Ongoing Support

Once pregnancy is confirmed, our team remains actively involved throughout the journey. We maintain regular communication with both you and your gestational carrier, helping coordinate milestones, answer questions, and provide support as you prepare to welcome your baby.

7. Delivery and Beyond

As your baby's arrival approaches, we'll help ensure everyone is prepared for delivery day. Our support doesn't end at birth. We're honored to celebrate this incredible milestone with our families and continue to be a resource long after your journey is complete.

Surrogacy is a life-changing experience, and you don't have to navigate it alone. From your first conversation with us until your baby is in your arms, Shining Light Baby is committed to providing compassionate guidance, personalized support, and expert coordination every step of the way.

Want a more detailed look at each stage? Visit our How to Become an Intended Parent Through Surrogacy page for a complete walkthrough of the surrogacy process from beginning to baby.

Yes. Advances in reproductive medicine have made it possible for many individuals living with HIV to safely pursue parenthood through gestational surrogacy. With the right medical care and treatment plan, intended parents living with HIV may be able to have a biological child while minimizing the risk of transmission.

The specific approach depends on your individual circumstances, including whether one or both intended parents are living with HIV. Your fertility specialist will recommend the safest and most appropriate treatment plan, which may include specialized laboratory procedures and IVF protocols designed to protect everyone involved.

Because every case is unique, it's important to work with an experienced fertility clinic that has expertise in assisted reproduction for intended parents living with HIV. At Shining Light Baby, we're happy to connect you with trusted reproductive endocrinologists and other professionals who can discuss your options and determine the best path forward.

Our role is to support you throughout the surrogacy journey by coordinating the many moving pieces, providing guidance, and ensuring you have access to knowledgeable medical and legal professionals. We believe everyone deserves compassionate care and the opportunity to explore their family-building options.

Want to learn more? Contact Shining Light Baby to discuss your unique situation and learn how we can help you begin your surrogacy journey with confidence.

Yes. Shining Light Baby proudly works with LGBTQ+ intended parents and is committed to providing an inclusive, supportive, and personalized surrogacy experience. We believe everyone deserves the opportunity to build the family they've always dreamed of, and we're honored to help make that possible.

Surrogacy is a common family-building option for many LGBTQ+ individuals and couples, particularly gay men who wish to have a biological connection to their child. Depending on your circumstances, you may use your own eggs or sperm, work with an egg or sperm donor, or use donor embryos. Our team will help coordinate your journey alongside your fertility clinic and legal professionals to ensure every step is handled with care.

Throughout the process, you'll receive the same dedicated support as every family we work with, from matching with a gestational carrier through delivery and beyond. We also partner with experienced reproductive attorneys who understand the legal considerations that may affect LGBTQ+ intended parents, helping ensure your parental rights are properly established.

Every family's story is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to surrogacy. Whether you're beginning your research or are ready to move forward, we're here to answer your questions and guide you through each stage of the journey with compassion and transparency.

Absolutely. Single intended parents can successfully grow their families through gestational surrogacy, and many choose this path each year. Whether you've always envisioned becoming a parent on your own or your circumstances have changed, surrogacy can provide a safe and rewarding way to welcome a child into your life.

At Shining Light Baby, we proudly work with single intended parents and provide the same personalized guidance and support offered to couples. Throughout your journey, we'll help coordinate each step, including surrogate matching, legal services, fertility treatment, escrow, insurance, and communication with your care team.

If you are using your own eggs or sperm, you'll work with your fertility clinic to create embryos through IVF. If donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryos are needed, your fertility specialist can help you explore those options before beginning the surrogacy process.

As with any intended parent, you'll work with an experienced reproductive attorney to establish your legal parental rights and complete the necessary agreements before the embryo transfer takes place. Requirements vary by state, making it important to work with professionals who are experienced in reproductive law.

Becoming a parent is about love, commitment, and providing a nurturing home. Your relationship status does not define your ability to create a wonderful life for your child, and we're honored to help make that dream a reality.

Shining Light Baby welcomes intended parents from many different backgrounds who are ready to grow their families through gestational surrogacy. Whether you've faced infertility, have a medical condition that makes pregnancy unsafe, are part of the LGBTQ+ community, or are pursuing parenthood on your own, we're here to help guide you through the process.

We work with:

• Married and unmarried couples
• Single intended parents
• Same-sex couples
• Intended parents using their own embryos
• Intended parents using donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryos
• Domestic and international intended parents

Every intended parent's journey is unique, and there is no single path that leads someone to surrogacy. Some have experienced years of infertility treatments or pregnancy loss. Others have medical conditions that prevent them from safely carrying a pregnancy. For many gay male couples and single fathers, surrogacy offers the opportunity to have a biological child. Whatever brought you here, you'll find a team that understands the emotional and practical aspects of the journey.

Before beginning the process, intended parents should have a consultation with a fertility specialist to discuss their treatment plan and embryo options. If you have not yet selected an IVF clinic or reproductive endocrinologist, we can connect you with experienced professionals who align with your goals.

At Shining Light Baby, we believe everyone deserves compassionate, personalized support throughout their family-building journey. From your first conversation with us until you welcome your baby home, our team is committed to helping you navigate each step with confidence.

The primary difference between gestational surrogacy and traditional surrogacy is whether the surrogate is genetically related to the baby.

In gestational surrogacy, the embryo is created through IVF using the intended parents' or donors' egg and sperm. The gestational carrier does not use her own egg, which means she has no biological or genetic connection to the child she is carrying.

In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate's own egg is used, making her the baby's biological mother. Pregnancy is typically achieved through intrauterine insemination (IUI) rather than IVF. Because of the legal, medical, and emotional complexities involved, traditional surrogacy is rarely practiced today.

At Shining Light Baby, we work exclusively with gestational surrogacy. This approach is considered the standard of care in modern assisted reproduction and provides clear legal and medical protections for everyone involved. It also allows intended parents to use their own embryos whenever possible or work with egg and sperm donors if needed.

Gestational surrogacy offers several advantages, including clearer parentage, well-established legal processes in many states, and a separation between the surrogate's role as the pregnancy carrier and the child's genetic origins. These factors help create a smoother experience for intended parents and gestational carriers alike.

If you're just beginning your family-building journey, understanding the difference between these two types of surrogacy is an important first step. Our team is happy to explain your options and help you determine whether gestational surrogacy is the right path for your family.

Read more about the Types of Surrogacy on our blog and learn why gestational surrogacy is the preferred approach today.

Gestational surrogacy is a family-building process in which a woman, known as a gestational carrier or surrogate, carries and gives birth to a baby for intended parent(s). The embryo is created through in vitro fertilization (IVF) using the intended parents' or donors' egg and sperm. Because the gestational carrier does not use her own egg, she has no genetic relationship to the baby.

Today, gestational surrogacy is the most common and widely accepted form of surrogacy in the United States. It allows individuals and couples who are unable to carry a pregnancy themselves to grow their families with the support of a carefully screened surrogate and a team of experienced medical and legal professionals.

The surrogacy process typically begins with creating embryos through IVF, followed by matching with a gestational carrier. Once legal agreements are complete and everyone has been medically cleared, an embryo transfer is performed at the fertility clinic. If the transfer is successful, the gestational carrier carries the pregnancy while maintaining regular communication with the intended parents and receiving ongoing support from the agency throughout the journey.

Gestational surrogacy can be an excellent option for intended parents facing infertility, medical conditions that make pregnancy unsafe, recurrent pregnancy loss, same-sex male couples, single fathers, and others who need the help of a gestational carrier to build their family.

At Shining Light Baby, we guide intended parents through every stage of the process, from your initial consultation and surrogate matching to delivery day and beyond. Our goal is to make the journey as organized, transparent, and supportive as possible while helping you feel confident every step of the way.

Want to learn more? Visit our blog for a complete overview of how gestational surrogacy works and what to expect throughout the journey.

Choosing a surrogacy agency is one of the most important decisions you'll make on your path to parenthood. At Shining Light Baby, we believe your journey deserves more than a matching service. It deserves compassionate guidance, open communication, and experienced support from the moment you reach out until long after your baby is born.

We intentionally keep our caseload manageable so every intended parent receives personalized attention throughout the process. You'll have a dedicated team available to answer questions, coordinate each step of your journey, and help navigate the emotional, legal, medical, and logistical aspects of surrogacy. We know that no two journeys are alike, and we tailor our approach to your unique goals, circumstances, and family-building story.

Shining Light Baby proudly works with intended parents from a wide range of backgrounds, including married couples, unmarried couples, single parents, and LGBTQ+ individuals and couples. We welcome both domestic and international intended parents and are committed to providing an inclusive, respectful, and supportive experience for every family we serve.

Our gestational carriers are carefully screened through a comprehensive evaluation process that includes medical record reviews, background checks, psychological evaluations, and ongoing support throughout their journey. We believe that successful matches are built on shared expectations, trust, communication, and compatibility, not simply availability.

Beyond matching, we help coordinate the many moving pieces involved in surrogacy. From referrals to experienced fertility clinics and reproductive attorneys to escrow management, insurance review, travel coordination, and ongoing case management, our team works closely with trusted professionals to help keep your journey organized and moving forward.

We also understand that communication matters. You'll receive regular updates throughout your journey, and we're available whenever questions arise. Whether you're preparing for your first embryo transfer, celebrating milestones during pregnancy, or planning for delivery, you'll have a team that genuinely cares about your experience.

Most importantly, we never lose sight of why we're here. Behind every match is someone hoping to become a parent. We consider it a privilege to help make that dream a reality and are honored to support families through one of life's most meaningful experiences.

Want to learn more about working with Shining Light Baby? Visit our About Us page to meet our team, learn about our mission, and discover what makes our approach to surrogacy different.

Many families choose Illinois because the state offers clear laws, strong legal protections, experienced fertility clinics, and a well-established parentage process. These factors can make the journey feel more organized and predictable.

For intended parents, Illinois can provide reassurance around legal parentage and delivery planning. For gestational carriers, Illinois offers protections through enforceable agreements, independent legal counsel, and clear expectations before pregnancy begins.

Illinois does not remove every challenge from the process, but it does provide a strong foundation for a supported surrogacy journey.

In gestational surrogacy, the carrier is not genetically related to the baby. The embryo is created through IVF using the intended parents’ genetics, donor genetics, or a combination of both.

This distinction matters because Illinois law specifically provides a clear framework for gestational surrogacy. Traditional surrogacy, where the surrogate’s own egg is used, involves different legal considerations and is not handled the same way.

Yes. Single intended parents may be able to pursue surrogacy in Illinois. Illinois is often considered a supportive state for many different family structures, including single parents by choice.

The legal process may depend on the intended parent’s situation, whether donor eggs or sperm are used, and other case-specific factors. A reproductive attorney can help confirm the best legal path.

Gestational carrier compensation in Illinois varies based on experience, insurance, location, pregnancy factors, and the specific agreement. First-time and experienced gestational carriers may have different compensation ranges.

In addition to base compensation, gestational carriers may receive reimbursements or allowances for approved expenses such as travel, maternity clothing, medical co-pays, childcare during appointments, lost wages when applicable, and other journey-related needs.

All compensation should be clearly outlined in the surrogacy agreement before embryo transfer.

The cost of surrogacy in Illinois can vary widely depending on the agency, fertility clinic, legal needs, insurance, gestational carrier compensation, embryo creation, and medical expenses.

Intended parents should plan for agency fees, IVF costs, legal fees, compensation, insurance review, escrow management, medical expenses, and possible travel costs. Some costs are predictable, while others depend on the specific journey.

Because surrogacy involves several professionals and medical steps, it is important to have a clear financial plan before beginning.

Yes. Illinois provides strong legal protections for gestational carriers when the requirements of the law are followed.

Surrogacy agreements outline important details such as compensation, reimbursements, medical expectations, insurance coverage, decision-making, travel, communication, and delivery plans. Gestational carriers also have the right to independent legal representation, meaning they have their own attorney reviewing the agreement in their best interest.

This helps ensure that the gestational carrier understands her rights and responsibilities before pregnancy begins.

Requirements can vary by agency and fertility clinic, but most gestational carriers must meet medical, emotional, and lifestyle qualifications.

Common requirements include having had at least one previous healthy pregnancy and delivery, being within clinic-approved BMI guidelines, being a non-smoker, having a stable lifestyle, and being physically and emotionally healthy. Gestational carriers must also be willing to complete medical screening, psychological screening, background checks, and legal steps before moving forward.

These requirements are designed to protect the gestational carrier, the intended parents, and the baby.

Surrogacy timelines vary, but many journeys take about 12 to 24 months from the beginning of the process to delivery. Some journeys move faster, while others take longer depending on matching, medical screening, legal work, IVF timing, and pregnancy.

Common factors that can affect the timeline include how quickly a match is made, how long medical records take to review, clinic scheduling, legal contract completion, embryo transfer timing, and whether a transfer is successful on the first attempt.

Working with an experienced agency can help keep the process organized and reduce avoidable delays.

The pre-birth parentage process allows intended parents to establish their legal parental rights before delivery. This is one of the reasons Illinois is so favorable for surrogacy.

Before birth, the required legal documents are completed and submitted according to Illinois law. When handled properly, this allows the hospital and vital records office to recognize the intended parents as the baby’s legal parents from birth.

This process can be especially reassuring for both intended parents and gestational carriers because it clearly defines parental rights before delivery day.

In many gestational surrogacy cases, intended parents do not need to complete a separate adoption after birth. Illinois allows a pre-birth parentage process, which can allow intended parents to be recognized as the legal parents before the baby is born.

This means the intended parents’ names can often go directly on the birth certificate. This process helps reduce stress at delivery and creates a smoother transition after birth.

Because legal requirements can vary depending on the details of the case, intended parents should always work with a qualified Illinois surrogacy attorney.

Yes. Gestational surrogacy is legal in Illinois. The state has a clear legal framework under the Illinois Gestational Surrogacy Act, which helps define the rights, responsibilities, and expectations of everyone involved.

This is one reason Illinois is often considered one of the most surrogacy-friendly states in the country. The law provides structure around surrogacy agreements, legal parentage, and the relationship between intended parents and gestational carriers.

Yes. Intended parents do not always need to live in Illinois to pursue surrogacy in Illinois. Many intended parents choose Illinois because of its strong legal protections, experienced fertility clinics, and established surrogacy process.

This can be especially helpful for intended parents who live in a state with unclear or restrictive surrogacy laws. However, every situation is unique, so intended parents should work with an experienced surrogacy attorney who understands Illinois law and any laws that may apply in their home state.

Yes. Compensated gestational surrogacy is allowed in Illinois when handled through a properly structured legal agreement.

Gestational carrier compensation is meant to recognize the time, commitment, physical demands, and responsibilities involved in carrying a pregnancy for another family. Compensation and reimbursements are typically outlined in the surrogacy contract before medical treatment begins.

These agreements may include base compensation, medical-related expenses, travel costs, maternity clothing, lost wages when applicable, and other agreed-upon expenses.

Yes. Illinois is considered a supportive state for LGBTQ+ intended parents pursuing surrogacy. Same-sex couples, gay intended parents, and LGBTQ+ individuals often choose Illinois because of its clear legal protections and established parentage procedures.

For LGBTQ+ intended parents, surrogacy may involve donor eggs, donor sperm, or embryos created through IVF. The legal process should be handled by an experienced reproductive attorney to make sure parental rights are properly established.

Choosing Shining Light Baby means choosing a team that is dedicated to providing personalized support, comprehensive care, and compassionate guidance throughout your surrogacy journey. We prioritize your health, well-being, and the importance of a positive surrogacy experience. With our experienced team and strong commitment to ethical practices, you can trust that your journey will be handled with the utmost care and professionalism.

To become a surrogate, you must meet the following qualifications:

• Be between 21-41 years old.
• Have had at least one successful pregnancy and be raising or have raised your own child.
• Have a healthy BMI (typically 35 or lower).
• Be a non-smoker and live in a non-smoking household.
• Have no history of major complications during pregnancy.
• Not currently receiving state financial assistance.
• Be willing to undergo a thorough medical and psychological evaluation.
• Have reliable transportation.
• Be ready to commit to the process and follow medical and legal guidelines.

The steps to becoming a surrogate with Shining Light Baby include:

1. Initial Application: Submit your initial application online.
2. Screening: Undergo medical and psychological evaluations to ensure you’re a good fit for surrogacy.
3. Matching: Get matched with Intended Parents based on shared values and preferences.
4. Legal Agreements: Sign comprehensive legal agreements outlining the rights and responsibilities of all parties.
5. IVF and Embryo Transfer: Participate in the IVF process, including medication protocols and embryo transfer.
6. Pregnancy and Delivery: Carry the pregnancy to term with ongoing support from our team.
7. Post-Birth Support: Receive continued support after delivery as you transition back to your routine.

The matching process can vary depending on various factors, such as your availability, location, and the specific preferences of both you and the Intended Parents. On average, it can take anywhere from a few weeks to a few months to be matched with Intended Parents who share your values and goals for the journey.

A gestational surrogate carries a baby that is not genetically related to her. The embryo is created using the egg and sperm of the Intended Parents or donors and then transferred to the surrogate's uterus. In contrast, a traditional surrogate uses her own egg, making her the biological mother of the baby. At Shining Light Baby, we only work with gestational surrogates to ensure a clear legal and emotional process for all parties involved.

Intended Parents come from all walks of life and may be individuals or couples who are unable to carry a pregnancy themselves. They might include heterosexual couples, same-sex couples, or single individuals. What they all share is a deep desire to build their family through surrogacy, and they are deeply appreciative of the gift you’re providing.

Surrogates are matched with Intended Parents based on shared values, preferences, and compatibility. This thoughtful process ensures a relationship that aligns with the goals and expectations of both parties, whether you're seeking a close, family-like relationship or a more formal arrangement.

Yes, surrogates receive generous compensation for their time, effort, and commitment. At Shining Light Baby, first-time surrogates can earn $55,000 or more, while experienced surrogates can earn over $60,000. With additional fees payable at specific milestones, bringing your total compensation to $75,000 or more. In addition to your base compensation package, there are certain fees payable in specific circumstances, such as carrying multiples.

At Shining Light Baby, we provide comprehensive support throughout your surrogacy journey. This includes legal and medical support, mental health counseling, and a dedicated case manager to guide you every step of the way. We also offer financial coverage for medical expenses, maternity clothing, and more.

Yes! If would like to use your current or previous OB, that’s terrific! If you prefer not to work with your current or previous OB or need assistance finding another option, we are more than happy to help you locate a suitable physician who is experienced with surrogacy pregnancies.

In some cases, using a midwife may be possible, depending on the preferences of the Intended Parents and the medical requirements of the fertility clinic. It’s important to discuss your desire to use a midwife early in the process to ensure everyone is aligned and to determine if it’s feasible for your surrogacy journey.

Shining Light Baby takes all necessary steps to minimize legal risks by ensuring that comprehensive legal agreements are in place before the surrogacy journey begins. These agreements clearly outline the rights and responsibilities of both surrogates and Intended Parents, protecting everyone involved.

If any complications arise during the pregnancy, your health and well-being, as well as that of the baby, are our top priorities. Shining Light Baby ensures that you have access to the best medical care and full support throughout any challenges. All medical expenses and related costs are fully covered by the Intended Parents.

Yes, most surrogates and Intended Parents maintain regular contact during the pregnancy. The level and type of communication are based on mutual agreement and preferences established before the journey begins. We encourage open communication to build a trusting and supportive relationship.

Yes, there may be some travel involved, especially for medical appointments or to meet the Intended Parents. All travel expenses, including accommodations and transportation, will be covered by Shining Light Baby. We work to ensure that all travel arrangements are convenient and comfortable for you.

As part of the surrogacy process, you will undergo a thorough medical evaluation, including a comprehensive physical exam, blood tests, and an ultrasound. These evaluations ensure that you are in good health and able to safely carry a pregnancy to term. Psychological evaluations are also conducted to ensure you are emotionally prepared for the surrogacy journey.

After delivery, Shining Light Baby continues to provide support to help you transition back to your routine. This includes emotional support, guidance on recovery, and assistance with any post-birth legal requirements. We’re here for you every step of the way, even after your surrogacy journey is complete.

After delivery, the baby is placed with the Intended Parents, and your role as a surrogate is complete. We offer post-birth support to help you transition back to your routine and ensure you have the resources needed for a smooth recovery.

As a surrogate, your role is to carry and deliver a healthy baby for the Intended Parents. You will follow medical guidelines, attend regular check-ups, and maintain open communication with the Intended Parents and medical team throughout the pregnancy.

No, to ensure the best outcomes for both you and the Intended Parents, surrogates must have previously had at least one successful pregnancy and be raising or have raised their own child.

If you do not have health insurance that covers surrogacy, Shining Light Baby will work with you to obtain a suitable policy. All medical expenses related to the surrogacy process are fully covered.

No, as a gestational surrogate, you will not have a genetic connection to the baby. The embryos are created using the egg and sperm of the Intended Parents or donors, and then transferred to your uterus.

The surrogacy process typically takes between 18 to 24 months from start to finish. This includes the initial application and screening, matching with Intended Parents, legal agreements, medical procedures, pregnancy, and delivery. Each journey is unique, so timelines can vary depending on individual circumstances.

No. Fertility clinics generally require that you discontinue antidepressant medication for at least one year before becoming a surrogate. This ensures your well-being and the best possible outcome for the surrogacy journey.

Yes, you should be prepared to take medications during the surrogacy process. Some clinics offer "natural cycles" that only involve taking birth control pills, but in most cases, injectable medications are required to prepare your body for a successful embryo transfer. Don’t worry—it’s a lot easier than it sounds, and we’ll guide you through every step.

Yes, you can! As a surrogate, you have the ability to choose the type of Intended Parents you work with based on your values, preferences, and comfort level. It’s important that both parties feel a strong connection and share similar goals for the journey.

Yes, having your tubes tied does not disqualify you from becoming a surrogate. The surrogacy process involves IVF, where embryos are created outside the body and transferred directly to the uterus, bypassing the fallopian tubes.

Yes, you can be a surrogate if you’ve had a C-section in the past. However, most agencies, including Shining Light Baby, require that you’ve had no more than three c-sections to ensure your safety and the success of the pregnancy.